My ideal family evening is a winter night, all of us snuggled on the couch with a good book. There’s a fire going and no one is in a hurry. Our bellies are full, the dishes are put away, lunches are made. When bedtime approaches, teeth are brushed, hugs and kisses are exchanged, and sleep comes quickly.
Our current reality looks nothing like that. Winter is the busiest time of the year for my family. Both of my kids are playing a sport (basketball) and both have a time-consuming hobby (robotics and horseback riding). Many evenings feel more like a carefully orchestrated circus than a cozy evening of calm. I take solace knowing that the rest of our year isn’t this busy, but that doesn’t help with the stress of the current moment. So when the topic of reading logs comes up, my first thought is, “ain’t nobody got time for that!” Am I right?
As a teacher AND a mom, I urge you to trust your parenting instincts and opt for quality over quantity.
3 Rules to Make Managing Reading Logs Less Stressful
- Don’t turn your kids into fanatical page counters or clock crunchers. The joy of reading is the act of reading itself, not completing a reading log. Nitpicking or obsessing over the reading log is not worth sacrificing the enjoyment of reading.
- Bring books with you everywhere you go to maximize downtime or situations when your kids might be bored. For example, read with one child while you sit through a sibling’s sports practice or rehearsal. Or hand everyone a book while you wait for your food to arrive at a restaurant. Not only is it good bonding time and a great way to prevent boredom, but it also reduces the need to rush to read before bed when you get home later. Then just jot down the minutes/pages read when you get home and have the reading log handy.
- Don’t encourage your child to lie on the reading log. My daughter has not met her reading log goal the last two weeks. Instead of stressing out over this missed deadline, we carved out some time on a Sunday to continue reading and catch up. We were intentional about this, and we looked forward to this planned downtime together. If turning in an incomplete reading log doesn’t sit well with you or your child, email the teacher to let them know that you intend to make up the missed time by a certain date, or have your child talk to their teacher. Teachers have busy lives, too. They’ll understand the need for flexibility. (Teachers, if you’re reading this, take note!)
Studies show us that reading is one of the leading ways to REDUCE anxiety in children. Don’t let stress over reading logs negate this benefit.
How do these rules work in practice, not just in theory? Here are some real world examples from my house over the last few weeks:
5th Grade Reading Log Requirement
My fifth grader’s reading log is given on Monday and due on Friday. The assignment states he is to read for 30 minutes nightly, but all that is required on the log itself is the title of the book and a chosen comprehension response to show some thoughts he had while reading. For example, he can make predictions, ask questions, draw connections, or write a summary. The parent signs the log at the end of the week.
- The Ideal Night: We set no timers and my son gets carried away in his book. We talk about what he read independently or what we read together so we can add to our thinking and shared experience of the text.
- The Busy Night: Some nights, he doesn’t get home from basketball until 9 p.m. After chatting about his practice and taking a shower, he’s ready for bed. If he’s still wired from practice, he’ll read in bed. He saves any sort of written reflection until the next evening.
- The Average Night: After brushing his teeth, he (or we) settle in to read from 8:30-9:00 and then he writes his reflection before falling asleep.
3rd Grade Reading Log Requirement
My third grader’s reading log is given on Friday and due the next Friday. The assignment states she is to read for either 100 minutes or read 100 pages over the course of the week. There’s a place to record progress toward the goal for each day. Both student and parent sign after recording the week’s total.
- The Ideal Night: My daughter loves reading together best, so we like to choose from picture books, chapter books with pictures, and picture-less chapter books. We’d read a bit before dinner and then for a longer period before bed. There’s no counting or clock-watching involved, only rich conversation or laughter.
- The Busy Night: When our afternoon and evening activities run late, it’s a better idea for us to get a good night of sleep. We either skip reading all together or just read for a few minutes. We don’t bother recording anything until the next day.
- The Average Night: We read for about 20-30 minutes before bed and record the pages or minutes when we’re done. If she’s tired or the text is challenging, I do most of the reading.
For better or for worse, reading logs are a common homework requirement for many students. The key is to make it a tool to encourage your family to make reading a habit, not a chore. Don’t let stress or anxiety over this assignment circumvent the joy of reading itself.
Remember, reading is more about quality than quantity.
If this is a topic that interests you, or that you struggle with, read these posts for more information and advice:
20 Minutes of Reading a Day: 18 Tips to Make It a Habit, Not a Chore
Where to Get Book Recommendations Your Child Will Love
Two products we love for reducing reading log stress:
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